Troubles

3 January 2026 01:10 am
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Things are going from bad to worse with LiveJournal, so I'm worried about my LJ Scrapbook and three RP LJ accounts: Schuldig, Aya, and catalex maybe. (I didn't do a lot with the Harper or Omi accounts.) For the RP accounts, I don't even remember how to send stuff over to DreamWidth it's been so long, and DW is probably being slammed with stuff like this right now.

I definitely want them having their own accounts. I don't remember how to create a new DW account! It may just be that it's late and my brain is fried, so I don't have the brain bandwidth to do this tonight. (I'm in a lot of pain.) Hope I feel better in time to get this done before LJ makes its move.

I don't think there's anything I can do about LJ Scrapbook though.


If things get as bad as it looks like they might, we'll be losing some old, irreplaceable fic from LJ.


eta 5 a.m.: [personal profile] tastesofhoney is up, and none of my comments have imported so far. None of the userpics either. I wonder how long that will take.

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I'm not liking how music on iPhone 17 sounds with corded earpods. (I refuse the cost of airpods, their environmental impact, and how I'm sure they'd easily pop out of my ears.) The adaptor for the 17 with my iPhone 5S earpods sounded crap, but so did the belkin SoundForm USB-C wired earbuds I bought. (Not fond of how the belkin's soft pod material feels in my ears either.) Does anyone has a suggestion for iPhone 17 settings that might help?

Nutcracker

2 January 2026 03:09 pm
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Meanwhile, I am currently enculturing myself (I'm sure that's a participle) by watching Matthew Bourne's Nutcracker from 2022. I accidentally caught a few minutes of it when it was broadcast on BBC4 in November, and set the box to record it on next showing. The physical portrayal of characterisation is excellent.
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[Image with Caption: A black cat spotted atop the stones at Stonehenge during the Winter Solstice Celebrations. This is considered to be a good omen for the coming year.]

Current Mood.

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1 January 2026 05:10 pm
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We hung out with friends for a low key NYE, which is exactly what we wanted. There was takeout Indian food; over the past few years, both the Stroppy One and I have developed a sensitivity to something in Indian food, but this was from a pace we hadn’t tried before. It was delicious, and for the rest of the evening I felt fine! 

The awfulness apparently decided to wait until I was trying to fall asleep. Even tho’ I took Benadryl, Pepcid, and some Tylenol, I ended up with ferocious acid reflux; not only did it keep me awake until almost 5am, but it was bad enough that I now have a phlegm-filled cough, and it brought back all the horrible symptoms I endured from the Covid vaccine. This isn’t how I wanted to start my new year  

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Speaking of the new year, I decided to state some resolutions! 

  1. Do more witchcraft. Even if on some days it’s only lighting some candles with focused intent. That still counts. I nd to wrap myself in my own power and comfort. 
  2. This is the big one: I’m going to try to not buy new clothes during 2025. I’ll buy fabric for dresses if it’s truly amazing, and things like bras, knickers, tights, and socks are exempt from the no-buy. I’m curious if I can stick to this, as I’m a magpie who likes hitting the shiny “add to cart” and getting packages in the mail. Buuuuuuuuutttt I will confess that I have an overwhelming amount of clothes. Thanks to the Madwoman in the Attic, I have enough dresses that I could wear a different one every day for more than a month. So! No clothes buying! Okay, except for this dress, which I plan on buying with the money I save by not buying anything else. 

Welcome to 2026

1 January 2026 06:19 pm
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Remember when the year 2000 seemed so mythical and far in the future? We're now in the second quarter of the century. Wild.

After a couple of weeks with the radon detector, the weekly average was down to maybe 2.5. Still in the zone of "think about getting a mitigation system," but less than it initially looked to be. I renewed the library checkout, reset it, and put it in kiddo's room for another while, since that's the chief concern area.

I made a nice PowerPoint printout for Mom with lots of pictures and descriptions of the new apartment, and presented it to her on Christmas, and again a couple of days later. She was surprisingly chill about it, but yesterday I got an angry call from her telling me that I will NOT be moving her, have no right, I'm giving her an ulcer, etc. She doesn't understand the level of her own incompetence and unsafety right now, nor that I'm actually legally obligated to care for her now, nor how draining it is on the whole local family to help her where she is and that it's only a fraction of the supervision she needs. She thinks she can hire someone to come in once a week and that's all she needs, but she is wrong. I don't have the bandwidth to deal with hiring one or more in-home carers, if they're even available, and they'd be more expensive to boot. Yes, she can still eat and use the restroom and dress and groom herself, but she doesn't remember to do so regularly, makes bad choices with food even when provided with good options (she's taken to living on peanuts lately), and missed an entire day of her auto-dispensed medicines last week (and I think she largely failed to eat at all that day, too, as she ended up browning out on us for a few minutes again the day after).

Kicked off the year with a lovely cross-country skiing outing by myself this afternoon (only the 2nd time out with these skis), in between the pancakes and bacon I made for breakfast and the traditional black-eyed peas and greens that Josh made for a late lunch. Then, while cleaning up some loose ends with an old retirement plan I realized that I have actually hit my own couple-retirement savings goal without even counting Josh's stuff. Assuming the market doesn't crater (which is a real possibility with the orange stain on this country for (at least) another 3 years), I have options. I want to get kiddo past HS and into whatever comes next for her, but having options is good.

My goals for this year are to get Mom into assisted living (and hopefully liking it), take an actual vacation (and get the child a passport so we have more options for that), and to do (at least) the three smallish house projects that I already have the stuff for: replacing the undercabinet lights, doing the cleanup and film on the bathroom windows, and painting and installing the shelves in the guest/office closet. There's lots more I want to do, of course, but those are three SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-bound) goals. My reward for getting Mom settled is that I want to start dyeing my hair blue/black again.

2025 Media Summary

1 January 2026 05:42 pm
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140 books consumed (holy crap, that's a lot, but many were shorter, like Dave Barry, Tom Holt, and Jasper Fforde):
- 30 eyes-only (paper, Kindle, or Hoopla e-book)
- 107 ears-only (e-audio or CD audio)
- 3 combo eyes and ears (one was most of both, as it turned out to be a photo book)

And I'm not going to count the video discs or equivalents, just summarize:
- finished ST:TNG from late season 4
- 2 seasons of Nobody Wants This
- 3 seasons Resident Alien
- 1 season Survival of the Thickest
- 1 season Moon Knight
- 1 season Fisk
- 1 season North of North
- 3 seasons The Great Pottery Throwdown
- a bunch of Buying Alaska and Lakefront Bargain Hunt from Roku Channel
- 1 season Cheap Irish Homes
- 1 season Gen V
- 1 season Pokemon Concierge
- 1 season Dark Winds
- 1 season A Man on the Inside
- 1 season Interview with the Vampire
- 1 season Wear Whatever the F You Want
- 1 season Kaos
- a few random movies
- most of the last 2 seasons of Ghosts (TiVo missed a few, haven't started this fall's yet)
- this year's Great British Bakeoff
- this year's This Old House
- this year's Ask This Old House
- most or all of this year's America's Test Kitchen

Didn't go to a movie theater this year. I've seen all of 1 movie in a theater since COVID started nearly 6 years ago.

We did go see The Addams Family on stage at the local community theatre, though.

Snowflake Challenge #1

1 January 2026 01:31 pm
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Challenge #1 - The Icebreaker Challenge: Introduce yourself. Tell us why you're doing the challenge, and what you hope to gain from it.

Happy New Year, all! I’m [personal profile] nyctanthes and I’ve posted on DW...a dozen times in the last two years? Eek. Plenty of reasons why, including being extraordinarily busy and becoming increasingly disengaged from fandom. How to use this blog when I didn’t have media I was excited about, when I’d stopped writing fanfic to concentrate on original work? I couldn’t figure it out, but perhaps this year I will. I’ve been toying with writing essayistic pieces and/or reviews both long and short. Perhaps this is a place where I can experiment with that. Perhaps I'll take up drabble writing and post it here. I'd love to write flash length or micro/drabble length fic - to find that easy, fun creativity again.

In short, I’m joining the [community profile] snowflake_challenge to see if I can revive this blog. But I’m also not putting any pressure on myself, as my original fiction writing comes first, and how many times have I swore that I'm going to be on DW more consistently? Too many...

(ETA: I've updated my sticky. It's HERE.)




Snowflake Challenge: A mug of coffee or hot chocolate with a snowflake shaped gingerbread cookie perched on the rim sits nestled amidst a softly bunched blanket. A few dried orange slices sit next to it.

December Media

1 January 2026 09:46 am
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Books Finished
- Shadow Speaker by Nnedi Okorafor [e-audio]
- The Bewitching by Silvia Moreno- Garcia [Kindle & paper]
- Babylon's Ashes by James S.A. Corey [e-audio & Kindle] (3rd? read)
- Persepolis Rising by James S.A. Corey [e-audio] (3rd? read)
- The Sinister Booksellers of Bath by Garth Nix [Kindle]
- Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil by V.E. Schwab [e-audio]

Library DVDs/Streaming Programs Watched
- Idiocracy (long ago rewatch)
- Kaos [2 equiv]
- Shaun the Sheep: The Flight Before Christmas
- Resident Alien: S3D3 [1 equiv]
- Evil: S1D1 [1 equiv]
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Whining

31 December 2025 02:32 pm
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I don’t know if it’s menopause, weight loss, or meds, but I’m losing a lot of hair. I’ve been shedding more for a few years, but over the past few months, any time I run my hands through my hair, I come away with A LOT of strands. It doesn’t matter if I’ve already brushed my hair, which makes me shed enough that if I lightly roll it together, it would fill half a prescription bottle, I’ll have 10-15 strands wrapped around my fingers. If I have my hair in a ponytail, I can gently tug on the end and come away with the same amount of hair.

I’m freaked out and angry about this. Really freaked out, to be honest. I have an appointment with a menopause specialist at the end of January, and you can bet this is something I’m going to discuss with her.

Theres a part of me that wants to shave everything off except my bangs. The main reasons I don’t right now are 1) I’m not sure if it would look good, and 2) I’m pretty sure that the Stroppy One would lose his entire mind. Yes, my body my choice, but the two of us discuss if either wants to make a major change to their appearance.

And so it would seem we still...

31 December 2025 04:02 am
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I couldn't do a mirror of my last post or this post on LiveJournal because it's currently not giving me the option to post anything without it being automatically Private only. It's weird and frustrating.

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If you're interested, I now have four chapters up of

A Long, Long Way to Go (14196 words) by Viridian5
Chapters: 4/?
Fandom: Encanto (2021)
Rating: Mature
Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings
Characters: Mirabel Madrigal, Bruno Madrigal, "Abuela" Alma Madrigal, Pepa Madrigal, Félix Madrigal, Residents of Encanto Village (Disney), Luisa Madrigal, Camilo Madrigal, Isabela Madrigal, Antonio Madrigal, Dolores Madrigal, Julieta Madrigal
Additional Tags: Post-Movie: Encanto (2021), Prophetic Visions, The villagers can't be normal about Bruno, False Accusations, Drama, Family Dynamics, Tío Bruno and child sobrinos' shenanigans, Eavesdropping, Threats, Family Banter
Summary:

This vision ends up revealing more than just the future.

(Or, the Madrigal family's new foundation is built on sand....)

moses Slept Here in 2025

30 December 2025 10:10 pm
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Traverse City, MI
Mountain View, CA
Santa Barbara, CA

A meager year. Caregiving limits one. Also, I work way too much, and that one trip was a midweek whirlwind for work.

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30 December 2025 03:32 pm
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Remember that serious back spasm I had around three weeks ago? Things haven’t really gotten better. In fact, I’m having random shooting pain in my sides, hips, and down my thighs. So for once in my life I’m doing the sensible thing and have canceled my trip to Arizona for the week-long company kickoff. Airline travel + wrangling luggage + hotel bed is a perfect combo to cause even worse spasms, and I don’t want to run the risk of having to go to the hospital while I’m away. 

I am, of course, feeling MASSIVE guilt about this. Even tho’ I know my new boss and team will support my doing this. This decision is also triggering my ever-present imposter syndrome about I don’t really know how to approach things for my new position and that all of this will lead to me being fired. Logically I know that’s not the case, but whoo the Brain Raccoons are loud  

Curl into a ball like you have more fun

29 December 2025 11:57 pm
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metals 1I put up some photos from 2019 I rediscovered. They whole batch looks a bit like a fever dream.... Lighting in window displays isn't always consistent from night to night and sometimes result in a "softer focus" look. You can see them at my Flickr.

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More of the original lights that came attached to my Christmas tree just burned out. Barely any still work, and the tree's not that old! I keep buying lights to apply manually.

I went shopping online for replacements for my burnt-out vintage multicolor flower Christmas tree lights, and the prices I'm seeing are nuts. The low end is like $25 after shipping and handling costs. The high is $100-something???

(I don't like the "cold" tone of the colors of new multicolor LED Christmas lights.)

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Kind of a PSA resulted from my own experience....

I've upgraded from the iPhone SE to 17, and it's reacting weirdly to me syncing it into iTunes: it won't show recently played songs in iTunes since I started using the 17 and it randomly mixed up all the cover images of the songs on the phone. The images are properly attached in iTunes but not on my phone anymore! Part of me keeps trying to find a pattern in the image switches but so far keeps running into a wall. Is there a way to fix this? I've synced it many times, and these things remain. (iTunes has all its recent updates.) My music is important to me!

An example of some of the hunh:

"Want" through "Bare" is all the same Cure album, Wild Mood Swings, but with four different incorrect cover arts. "Open," "High," and "Apart" are from the Wish remaster.

My chats with Apple Care--Regarding the issue with my iPhone 17 not syncing up properly with iTunes--didn't go great. I spoke to two people via Chat who couldn't help me, the last one asking me to attempt two solutions that might make other things worse. One thing I definitely will not be doing is paying for a monthly Apple Music subscription just to properly access music I already own. So I scheduled a phone call from a Senior Team member for the evening, hoping that person can create a solution we can all get behind.

Apple called me 12 hours earlier than scheduled and using the wrong phone number, even though I gave them the correct number and time during the chats twice, then sent me an e-mail about how they couldn't contact me. Shocker. I replied to both e-mails with the correct stuff. Then they still didn't call at the correct time, so I instigated and Karen-ed myself into getting a call from Apple senior support immediately.

It was illuminating in some bad ways.

There's a known issue with this in the current iOS: 26.2. (That showed up in my 17 but not the SE, which was also running 26.2 when I traded it in, so I'm thinking there may be some setting or programming stuff also involved we can't figure out? More people have 17s and such than SEs, so a lot of people have to be having this issue.) But since it's "just" about music, it's not something Apple will immediately resolve.

My other problem is that I have a lot of music I burned myself from CDs, so Apple Music might get rid of those if I'm not careful. Because it's third party! Legal issues! (I didn't realize until this phone call that apparently lots of record companies and music business people are suing everybody over rights.) Who knows if I should really have this stuff!

So the senior service guy said he would not suggest I delete the library and create a new one in case stuff I own but Apple doesn't approve of goes missing.

He's a DJ, and he says he pirates stuff himself. He was like, "Yeah, we're all turning into pirates. And I work for Apple." Because people will ask for a song while he's working but it might not be in his internet, legally feasible library. Brave new bullshit, enshittified world stuff.

The senior support guy says he has a ton of songs on hard drives that aren't connected to the internet to keep them safe from getting taken away or changed.

It's funny having an Apple employee saying he prefers flip phones.

Since I prefer to listen to the music I already own, even if the images are wrong, over potentially losing swaths of my songs, I'm sitting put.

I have music burned off CDs from local NYC '90s bands that never got a real record deal, stuff from singles CDs in the '90s, rare bands, rare music, and Apple wouldn't provide me with that kind of stuff even if I were willing to pay to get them over again. I still rip music off CDs into Tunes. I did it one night recently to test the sync problem, and saw that even sending over a single new music file screws up the cover album art image on the 17. (I have a disc drive as part of this laptop, not an external drive.) I have thousands of songs, and some of those CDs I don't have any more.

He commends me on avoiding subscribing to Apple Music, given the conditions I mentioned. With what this guy told me about Apple policing music, I'm not sure I trust them. I'd say 98% of my music is "third party," which means Apple distrusts them and doesn't guarantee they won't be borked and doesn't care if they are. Sorry, Apple, I'm not going to buy all my music from you just so you approve of what's on my phone.

So I'd have to be careful in my choices of what I do.

~snerf~ Here I am, listening to a Cure song on my phone with a Poe album cover on it, angry at everything.

So. Wish we all had a better solution available now. I have a brand new iPhone 17, as part of my family's plan, so switching away from Apple is unfortunately not an option. I had no idea things were reaching this point until this problem led me to contact Apple Care.

My brain is fried, have a thing.

29 December 2025 09:18 pm
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[A Tweet from David Malki which reads, "If a croque madame speaks to another croque madame about something other than a croque monsieur, that's called passing the béchamel test."]

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27 December 2025 05:45 pm
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My back is still randomly spasming, with a side of other muscle groups getting angry. I’ve been wearing lidocaine patches day and night, and occasionally breaking into the heavy meds at bedtime. Luckily I had an appointment with my doctor 5 days after the first round of spasms, and now have orders for three different MRIs of my back, a referral to a back specialist, and a prescription for REALLY heavy muscle relaxers. Heavy enough that I’m only going to take them at bedtime. 

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I got my COVID vaccine today, which means I’m going to be miserable for the next few days. But not only was it time, vax schedule-wise, for me to get it, but I also wanted to make sure I’d had it before I head to Arizona for the giant company kickoff week at the beginning of January. Whee?

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Christmas was very low-key. We had already gotten and given each other presents, so there was nothing to unwrap. We spent the day having food with some local friends, and then binge watched the new episodes of Stranger Things. I have some suspicions about things that will happen in the finale; I hope they won’t happen, but there are some big narrative anvils dropping  

(I’ve come to the conclusion that Eleven is my least favorite character; she’s a walking collection of superpowers needed for the story, but other than that, she’s not that interesting.)

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Now I will go make a sweet potato and ham gratin so there is easy food for the next few days while I’m miserable. My holiday time off is packed with excitement, yes.

Catmas

27 December 2025 03:10 am
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My cat niece Kiwi Herman loved the catnip toys I bought for her (and my cat nephew, Winston Patrick) and rolled off the table a few minutes after this. Look at her tongue in one of the photos. The set of toys were mushroom-themed: two different cartoony mushrooms and one "can" proclaiming itself to be cream of mushroom soup. photos )


Cat nephew Winston Patrick inside the tree again. So many broken ornaments. There was a time or two when I was over there for the day where I thought he'd destroy the tree with me watching. Look at his face, zero regrets. It's his first Christmas. photos )